I want to choke this bitch...seriously!
She comes waltzing in here with clothes for my little Bella...well, she says, "Isabella will have more things to choose from to wear to school tomorrow"... like she bought any of it; it was second-hand from some friend of the family, but of course she had to beam like she was bringing us the winning lottery ticket...hohum...boring. Besides, BellaRose has plenty of stylish clothes, which I should say the bitch is lacking in any style! You should see some of her gawdy stuff, its pathetic!
Okay, allright, so this isn't really why I'm pissed...I'm pissed because she is still neglecting Wyatt (Bella's brother, he's 4). He still hasn't seen a dentist in 2 years, nor is any adult in that house (there are 4 of them) teaching Wyatt to go to the bathroom like a big boy instead of wearing diapers. The kid isn't potty-trained, still at nearly 5 years old in July. She just shakes her head, blames my daughter. I tell her that my daughter blames her, after all, MIL does have custody of Wyatt, its HER responsibility to get 'er done. MIL says, well, I think I will take him to see a family doctor, and see what they recommend, have him checked. Seriously, she thinks Wyatt doesn't feel 'wet' but I can tell you he does. He knows when he pisses and poops on himself, whining about needing his pullup changed. What is the use of pullups? A crutch? because he doesn't use them properly, nor does anybody else in that house care about it. I told Anita that a family physician would probably recommend some therapy because obviously there is a psychological overlay with going to the bathroom for some reason. I mean he won't even attempt to pull down his pants, or even go into the bathroom to even sit on the potty. Its ridiculous. I told my daughter and Anita, it was good thing he didn't live here, because if he did, those diapers would be a thing of the past, and darn quick too! and that I just did not understand the need to invent excuses as to why this is not being addressed.
Wyatt refuses to even talk about his potty habits, even while trying to engage him in a conversation about being a big boy, and going to school, and being around other kids his age. He just retorts at me stating, "I don't want to talk about it." I told him somebody needed to talk about it, so when MIL came back after a run for her baby spoiled-ass grown son, we had a little discussion.
I've heard MIL bark for the last year that Wyatt needed to be in daycare, yet she neglects putting him in there; same thing making excuses for not having him potty trained. She thinks putting him in daycare is going to fix his potty training. Yeah, that's it, leave the job to somebody else to do. That's the mentality out there. She does everything for her 30 year old drug addicted, pussy-assed, baby boy who can't hold a job down because he "suffers from anxiety?" (you mean drug addiction don't you?) but yet she neglects her own grandson? She's too busy buying herself clothes and thinking of her grown son (aka Lord Spoiled). She is still making excuses, that Jeremy, who is married to my daughter (aka Griszelda Mess), now has been infected with a spider bite; has a place on his arm, she said. I suggested to her it was not a spider bite, but merely a needle stick gone awry that caused it. Is she really that stupid? OhMyGawd!
She has been giving both her grown son and my daughter money out the ass (since she got a settlement on her shit house that burnt to the ground due to all the nasty clothes pushed up against the pilot light) and all they have done is blow it; MIL is no better, she spends money like its nobody's business. She never did clean or have nice things in her home, but rather spent it on herself. My daughter says she has medical bills, using her illness as a means of extorting money, but neither her or Jeremy have paid a bill in their life...much less take any spending or drug money they got and pay a bill? are you kidding me? That is what I told MIL. I told her she was a fool with a capital F if she believed that load of crapshit. She should know better; after all, she has lost thousands upon thousands of dollars on these two no goods for nothings, but yet, she continues to keep them? Making excuses for them? I don't get it, never will.
I would like to see my grown daughter get out of that mess of a family and no good for nothing relationship, get back into a life of some sort, and get her own son out of that household. However, she is too weak-willed to stand on her own and do the right and decent thing. Her and Jeremy's latest scam is to use Wyatt as a tax deduction to get a big tax return. However, Wyatt has been in the permanent custody of MIL and her husband, NOT Jeremy or Rae (my daughter) for nearly all of last year, so if they do this they will be defrauding the government BIG TIME. I advised them not do this. I was told that MIL said it was fine, she wasn't going to get anything back for Wyatt, they would have to pay on their taxes, so it was okay with her if they claimed him. I told MIL that she would be headed to prison too, and they could all share a cell! I told her she had better think twice about it.
A shared cell would be just good enough for them all. You know, that's pretty much what they are all living in right now. I don't suppose it would be any different but at least Wyatt would be free of neglect.
