Another Court Date ... Another Delay

My evil ex's trial date seems to be dragging on and on. He was originally scheduled for jury trial January 26th, which was put off until today, February 13th, coming back up for review. It seems that the prosecution was awaiting more evidence, some of which did come, and just one more thing is still out and they will make sure they have it before the case goes to trial. Hopefully this will finally come to some resolution and soon! I know for me I just want it to be over for my daughter, so she can get on with her life. Funny with the death of the uncle (January 15th and brother of the evil ex) who was initiating contact with her father in jail, she is so much more relaxed, happier, and not as moody as before. She doesn't seem the least bit concerned with what is going on with her father. She is a typical teen and having fun with her MySpace and friends as she should! I even managed to get her her to go to school four whole hours this week! YAY! Next week I'm hoping for 20 hours.

I signed up to receive notice of this trial to follow it.

Isn't this an impressive list of charges for which he is being charged...

1 0109960 RAPE, 1ST DEGREE, VICTIM U/12 YE NA
2 0109960 RAPE, 1ST DEGREE, VICTIM U/12 YE NA
3 0109960 RAPE, 1ST DEGREE, VICTIM U/12 YE NA
4 0109960 RAPE, 1ST DEGREE, VICTIM U/12 YE NA
5 0109960 RAPE, 1ST DEGREE, VICTIM U/12 YE NA
6 0111860 SODOMY, 1ST DEG, VICTIM U/12 YEA NA
7 0111860 SODOMY, 1ST DEG, VICTIM U/12 YEA NA
8 0111860 SODOMY, 1ST DEG, VICTIM U/12 YEA NA
9 0111860 SODOMY, 1ST DEG, VICTIM U/12 YEA NA
10 0111860 SODOMY, 1ST DEG, VICTIM U/12 YEA NA
11 0109900 RAPE, 1ST DEGREE NA
12 0111800 SODOMY, 1ST DEG

I don't think he stands a chance in hell of getting off, particularly since nobody has been subpoenaed and the evidence will stand for itself? I just wondering what is going through his head? Does he really just think he is going to walk out of there and back to his so-called life on Tarpin Ridge, and with our daughter? I shudder to think about that.

Happy Valentine's Day To All You Lovers Out There ...

I remember not so long ago in the distant past, I was in a relationship? hmmmm, long distance relationships are hard to maintain and I miss him and the closeness. He is there with his and here I am with mine right now; both of us have our responsibilities. Even though I'm not a big fan of Valentine's Day, it is still a melancholy reminder that he is states away from me today. I hope soon to reunite.

Until then, Miss Opinionated Maxine always brings me a giggle!



Oh, and before I forget check out her Valentine Advice for Singles, ha! it's a hoot! click here!









Embrace the love if you have found it; if not open your heart to the possibility of love, chances are its right in front of your nose!

and now, a few words from Your Majesty ....

Dear Blogdom ~




I cannot believe that they have blown what? $4,000 bucks just in the last two weeks? Yep, Griszelda Mess and Lord Spoiled have been spending large this month, only to call Your Majesty last night, waking me up from a dead fatigue and sleep, to ask if they could use some of their Food Stamps to buy me groceries in exchange for the cash money for gas?

I guess I blew a gasket on Griszelda! She hung up on Yours Truly.

Here I am, barely able to keep a roof over my head, living on less than 500 bucks a month right now and they want money? Gee, I think I should go apply for Food Stamps! My teen and I might get to eat something better than cheap pasta and ground beef.

Oh, the nerve of family...hold me back, folks.

"Mirror, mirror on the wall, am I not the bitchiest Queen of all?"

Just ask Griszelda Mess, she'll tell you I'm the worst ever!!!!

Fairy sprinkle blessings, till next time~!

For a complete cast of characters in this real life sitcom, click here

When Is a Tattoo Too Much?

Here is some serious body art, folks!

I don't envy anybody their pleasures, but sometimes it looks like overkill to me. I worked with a girl who had this fairytopia put the back of her shoulder; she is rather obese and never shows it, so I am wondering why?

Somehow I see "I'm A Virgin" (that's Imogene Virgin, a lady) laying in the bed with a broken hip at 81 but lo and behold she has a tattoo of a fairytopia on her butt cheeks or worse she has a clit ring?

O'Lordy ... Not attractive.

What do you do if you change your mind 10 years down the road?

I don't have any tattoos, nor am I interested in them. It's all a matter of preference and not to mention I don't trust people with needles, I'm much too concerned about health related issues that could arise from unclean instruments.

Yikes!

What Day Is It?

Well, what is happening on the legal front?

The “ex” was scheduled to go to trial two Mondays ago, however the prosecution was awaiting some DNA evidence, so his case is up for review on Friday the 13th! Isn’t that a crock?

In the meantime, life goes on here. My teen is getting bored of this homebound and wants to go back to school. I figure it’s about time. She is also a little stressed out a social situation involving a boy. Love and hate runs a thin line.

Today she wanted to go back to her old school, so we went back out there to enroll her after taking her out of the city school here, and once we got out there they said it was too late in the year to take “out of district students.” They could have saved me a little time and trouble by telling me that before I got there. Geeze, what a waste of time and disappointment for her.

So, it’s back to this less than favorable situation as it is. Tomorrow I will make an appointment for her to talk with her counselor at the city school so they can work out a plan.

Happier Homeless?

Given the current state of affairs, it is hard for families to maintain mortgages, buy groceries and the necessities with which to raise their children, especially on one income. I, myself, realize that I am only one paycheck from the streets. I also realize that even though perhaps one of my family members might take me in, asking them to do so might be something I am not prepared to do.

I was reading an article about how people "buy into" this system of paying everybody but only surviving and not really living at all. That's the way I feel. I'm tired. I could see living on the streets, dirty, alone, hungry, and I wonder how many people would walk right on by me? Nobody would care to hear my story would they? We place way too much emphasis on what we have, not who we truly are, and we share very little of ourselves.

I came across this picture, it is by m. napper, who obviously met this man, had a chat, paid him for a poem, which was entitled Time. Here it is.

Time

Waiting for the sun to go down
Get me some rest from this old seaside tourist town
People from all around this globe
I gave up years ago
Been running from up till sun down
Taking in the sun’s warmth
Maybe if I was younger it wouldn’t be so hard
Now I just don’t care
I ain’t got no home
Don’t have a mate
I’m fifty-six years old
Time is late.
Time ran out a long time ago
Time overtakes us all
The clock just keeps running
We all will die.
We all die sooner or later
Your time is limited also
So don’t give me no jive
The end must come
The spirits will have their way
Parts of the old book we never got to read – the word of God-
But is it
Time knows
Time won’t tell us what we don’t know—we just keep going
We have gotten good at pretending
Lies are the rule of thumb
Years come and go
Is this the best we can do
Time will tell
Will we hear its call.

(author is Royce Hummer, homeless…somewhere in L.A.)

The Google Game ...

So without further ado ... Let’s play this game.

Q1: Type in "[your name] needs" in the Google search.

Bella needs a drink of water.

(I’m a little white Maltese doggie with big brown eyes, awww.)

Q2: Type in "[your name] looks like" in Google search.

What do you think Bella looks like from Twilight?

(Best Answer - Chosen by Asker…Yahoo Answers!

here is Stephenie Meyer's description.

"In my head, Bella is very fair-skinned, with long, straight, dark brown hair and chocolate brown eyes. Her face is heart-shaped—a wide forehead with a widow's peak, large, wide-spaced eyes, prominent cheekbones, and then a thin nose and a narrow jaw with a pointed chin. Her lips are a little out of proportion, a bit too full for her jaw line. Her eyebrows are darker than her hair and more straight than they are arched. She's five foot four inches tall, slender but not at all muscular, and weighs about 115 pounds. She has stubby fingernails because she has a nervous habit of biting them. And there's your very detailed description."

Q3: Type in "[your name] says" in Google search.

Mama Bella Says - Protect Your Neck!

(Yep, advice from AfroBella!)

Q4: Type in "[your name] wants" in Google search.

Bella wants to be Edward’s Angel …

(Maybe I do and Maybe I don’t~!) … A Bella/Edward Video about how Bella wants to always be there for Edward, but sometimes being a human can get in the way of protecting him. huh?



Q5:  Type in "[your name] does" in Google search.

Let me guess here…Bella does Edward?

(LOL!)

Q6:  Type in "[your name] hates" in Google search.

Bella Hates This Part - Twilight - Featuring P-C-D



(PussyCat Dolls, yo!)

Q7:  Type in "[your name] asks" in Google search.

Bella asks Edward to act human Video on AOL Video - Bella asks Edward to act human while she's cleaning her truck and Edward then invites her to see his ...

(his what? Google! I can’t find that video! Go figure! )

Q8: Type in "[your name] likes " in Google search.

Bella Likes It Upside Down by Chrissy Watch it on MySpace Videos.

(Okay, it wasn’t what you thinking . Cause I watched it. It was a video of a little baby whose daddy was playing with her turning her upside down, so there get your mind out of the gutter!)

Q9:  Type in "[your name] eats " in Google search.

Bella eats and runs! (http://bellaeats.com/) Just where am I running? To the bathroom?

Q10: Type in "[your name] wears " in Google search.

Actress says Bella wears the pants in 'Twilight'

(that’s not surprising, in my house I wear the pants, too!)

Q11:  Type in "[your name] was arrested for" in Google Search.

Okay nothing really comes back on this one, except talking about Terra Bella arrests (a town).

(Google was useless on this one!) On Internet Explorer, let’s see … same thing!

Q12: Type in "[your name] loves" in Google Search.

Bella loves Jenna, a 2004 movie starring two hot porno stars? ha!

(Well, let’s not go there, shall we?! It seems if you click on any link to find out about this movie it takes you to XXX sites…LOL)

Laughable Truths .. as told by the one and only...

yeah, well ...

Do we have to play the honesty game?