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In other news, the boss lady is back today from India. She had a family tragedy with a couple of deaths of her in-laws due a boating accident gone bad which cut her trip short, but as far as work and such we really needed her back. We have things that need planned out, discussed, and otherwise protocoled. (Is that a word?). She called me with questions today and I brought her up status about whats been going on.
Workload seemed massive on the amount of files we had, two people missing in action today. That always puts more work on the other members of the FQA tribe. Its like covering vacation time. That in itself, can be quite an issue. Independent contractors work when they want to, not when we want them to. It can be a pain in the arse, especially around the holidays. Everybody wants off, but we still have to cover the workload regardless. We do have dictators who will dictate on an actual holiday and stat files. Even with two people off we still got 'er done!
I guess I'm not the only one who has crazy in the family, its everywhere. One of the girls who helps manage part of the workload told me her mother was put in jail; she got drunk and disorderly (I assume) as bond was set at 10,000 bucks? yeah, sounds like there was a little more to the story than meets the eye? I'm not one to judge, cause I got crazy here, to include the in-laws, especially MIL (mother-in-law), who wanted to have a "family meeting" about her son and my daughter's suspected deceit over money-getting?...nah. I told her those two are grownup and I am not involving myself in their affairs. If MIL and hubby gave them cash money and are now realizing that they should not have, oh well, too bad, so sad. Stupidity overrides any intelligence this woman supposedly has when it comes to her spoiled brat of a son. Both MIL and her henpecked hubby already traveled this road once, and obviously are not too smart in realizing a pattern of behavior and deceit here involving money. Family meeting at my house? It ain't gonna happen.
Its like I told MIL, I am raising my daughter's child here, I am not hosting a bash session here over two adults (my grown daughter and her supposed do-less husband). What did she expect me to do with little eyes and ears here taking in all this about her mother? What about her brother who would also be toted to this meeting at my house? ahh...let me say this again. No!! My little Bella's mother (my grown daughter) is physically ill that's for sure, deceitful and still using drugs? I don't know. Only they know what they are doing, and both my daughter and son-in-law are perfectly capable of this type of behavior, eliciting sympathy and pity over health issues requiring cash money for this, that, and the other. Why would I care? I care about my daughter, but financially she will have to get a medical card or some other means by which to acquire medical care, and if she is truly ill enough, she needs to be talking to the people who can help her. Isn't everyone suppose to hold themselves accountable for their own behavior? I am not a judge or jury, nor will I partake in such. I just want to be left alone. I refuse to be a victim of money-needing drama induced by two people who cannot live life any other way or sucked into the merry-go-round cycle of MIL and henpecked hubby wanting proof to substantiate their stupidity at handing them money.
How was your Monday?
